Sheree 0:00
I am so excited for you to get to be in the energy of today's guest. Hillary is a dear friend of mine, who I've had the privilege of knowing for over five years now, and actually got to give her a real life squeeze when I was over in the States. Hillary is an energetic healer and the founder of bringing baby an innovative company that shows women how to heal the sickly increase their chances of pregnancy. She works with clients who are trying to conceive and specializes in clients who want to bring a baby into the world without sacrificing their careers. She brings her clients more than 15 years of training and experience as an intuitive and spiritual midwife, an expert who communicates and works with the spirit of the baby. Her clients have become pregnant after working with her whether they have undergone multiple unsuccessful rounds of IVF a healing from a miscarriage, or have recently decided that they're ready for a baby. She also teaches tools for communicating better managing emotions, and honing intuition to new mothers and children. I'm so excited for the gift that has Hillary and you to get to experience, something that I know will be quite a new and interesting topic. So let's dive in. Guys, I'm so excited to have Hillary on the podcast today. This the work that she does in this world is really, really magical. And I think a lot of you will be surprised at some of the things that she has to share and has to offer very different and unique perspective. So you do have such a beautiful role in this world, Hillary and I'm not sure many are actually familiar with the work that you do, or even the fact that this is something that is available to them. So can you share with us what it is that you do like what is an intuitive and spiritual midwife and how you use energetic healing.
Speaker 1 1:45
Thank you so much for having me here. It's I love your podcasts, it's wonderful to be here. And my company is bringing baby and I work with women to help them increase their chances of pregnancy using energetic transformation and healing. And what that is, is basically looking at the energetic side of pregnancy or how women might be able to heal their bodies in a way if they're, maybe they want to become pregnant, or they had been trying and hasn't happened or they're going through IVF. And it's a way to be able to use energetic work and healing work to be able to shift the vibration to shift the energy in their body to be able to create space for a pregnancy. A lot of times there are blocks unconscious blocks that somebody might have in their body, as you know how nutrition can influence that also and can have a huge impact on it is that there's so many different aspects to look at, no matter what you're doing. But in particular, in the realm of wanting to become pregnant. Yeah,
Christa 2:50
no, I'm fascinated with what you do. I think infertility fertility issues is a big problem. And I work with plenty of people who say, Oh, I've got PCOS, or I've got endometriosis and things like that. And it's really interesting, when you mentioned vibration, or just unconscious beliefs, I have found that some of my patients, I actually asked them once I built some trust, where you actually sexually abused younger and things like that. And it's really interesting to find. And of course, this is not true across the board, but quite a few of them actually Yes. And how that unconscious belief around just this area of their life can be affected. What approach do you take when it comes to infertility in your patients?
Speaker 1 3:35
Well, I don't have patients I have clients, but I know I love that I really every person is an individual and every situation is completely different. And it's the same way when someone's you know, wants to become pregnant. But some common themes that I do see is somebody who might unconsciously be sabotaging it not in a way that, well, they're just not allowing it to happen because of past, maybe something happened when, during their birth, maybe something happened in their relationship with their family or, and they're holding it on a cellular level in their body. And by clearing that or it could be it could be anything from their environment, it could be a range of things, or it could just be that they're scared of losing their freedom. Because you know, you can be scared to lose your freedom. What happens when I become a mom? And am I going to be you know, am I responsible for everybody and everything? And how will I be able to take care of myself. And so it's not only the unconscious beliefs, but really it's looking at the energetic effect it's having on your body and really down to a cellular level and also in terms of your female organs is that you want the blood to be flowing. You want the energy to be flowing to be able to facilitate a pregnancy because if it's not, it will also you know, you might be healthy and you you might there might not be anything obviously wrong, but yeah The pregnancy might not be happening. So you have to kind of look at also, as Shree mentioned, I'm also an intuitive and so I also look at the person physically and energetically and emotionally, to see what lights up in terms of is it a physical issue? Do they just need more nutrition and their, you know, the lining of the uterus so that the egg can connect? Or is it something greater? Or is it you know, in a lot of times, it's it can be something quite small and not really, as huge as you would think once you look at it and incorporate that additional aspect other than just what we already know about traditionally speaking in the medical community, which I fully support the medical community. But I do believe that there is also a holistic side, that additional side, that gives so much more to it when it comes to having a baby. Because really, I believe a baby is in a sense, a miracle. It's also a scientific miracle, because we know how it happens. But I do believe in the energetic component can support it for people that might be struggling, or anybody in general, actually, but
Sheree 6:09
I think it's so beautiful that you bring that up. And I mean, I'm yet to have children, it's definitely like my number one goal in life. But when you talk about, you know, a baby, being a miracle, I am always just so blown away, like when my friends fall pregnant and sort of thing I'm like, you are growing a little human inside of yourself out. Nominal is that and I think it's such a, it's such a blessing that as woman, like actually get to carry the child, I think it's so beautiful. And you mentioned a lot about taking care of your body energetically. And I love that you bring that in. So can you talk a little bit about what you mean by the energetics of it, and what are some of the best practices and ways that you you share your work with with your clients to make sure that they are taking care of their body energetically?
Speaker 1 7:01
Oh, that's amazing. And I think it basically it's how you manage your energy to be able to create what you want in your life. And if you're managing your energy and and that's talking about the energetics in your body, or how energy is processed once it kind of hits your space. And, you know, an example of that is reading the news and how sensitive you are to it or not, that's a very general example, but how you deal with the energy that comes your way. And once you know how to manage the energy in your life, you begin to tune in and listen to your body and listen to what is my body need what is going to support it at this time. So for example, I just was on a trip with my son, he had his spring break, and I've just returned home, but my body was really craving a lot of green juice and vegetable juice. And so you know, just juicing the vegetables and juices. And so I've just been nourishing myself, but it's because I have that I've developed the connection with my intuition, everybody has it. But there are ways to develop it further. So there's meditation, and different forms of guided meditation that can support you by using specific tools. There are creative activities, some people may not feel as inclined toward meditation, and that's perfectly fine. But engaging in some sort of a creative activity, such as painting, or drawing or writing music, and then also spending time outdoors in nature, especially if it's a beautiful place, getting the fresh air, I mean, I think if you can have the combination of all of them, it's amazing, because part of the process of creating a baby, it is a very creative process. And so when you're able to access the divine feminine energy, what I would call the divine feminine energy, your creativity at a deeper level at that sort of special place, then it helps to for the energy to be flowing. So I would say there's those three main ways oops, sorry.
Christa 9:06
Can we tap a little bit more into meditation specifically, because I think most people have heard that some people are really intimidated by it because, you know, they think it's this big process, right? Or it has to last an hour. But specifically, you know, maybe tying together you know what I brought in like the trauma response, let's say and something that's kind of an unconscious belief, trauma can be anything right it can be can be any experience kind of hold on to on the cellular level. And I love that you mentioned that, really that womb space is the creative space. And so how can people how would you explain like how people can approach meditation and maybe an easier way or the benefits to it and how it doesn't really have to be overcomplicated?
Speaker 1 9:50
Well, I think meditation, there are different kinds of meditation. I was gonna say medicate medication, it's not medication, it's meditation. So there are different ways to meditate, there are different types. So I really am advocating for there's the type of meditation that you hear about where the person kind of takes off and fantasizes something and is gone and has a hard time coming back. And that's kind of more the idea of somebody kind of leaving their body and escaping and going off somewhere. But the type of meditation I'm speaking about here is what I would call more of an intuitive meditation or a guided meditation. And it's one where you learn specific tools on how to integrate your body and your spirit so that you can be more connected to what is your higher self, I'm not sure if these are appropriate to use with your audience. So please correct me. And just let me know, I'm fine. Okay. So once you can connect with what is your true inner voice, then, and it's connected to your body physically, then it's a lot easier for you began to create, not only to create, but to manifest. And so this type of meditation, this intuitive meditation, where you're developing more of your intuitive abilities is more of a connection more with yourself. So you're more connected to the planet, you're more connected to Mother Earth, you're more connected to being aware of what is your space, and what is another person's space. So if another person has this idea that I want you to do this, you're gonna be like, Oh, that that doesn't feel like me. And it happens all the time with kids and parents, the parents, like, I want you to do this. And then all sudden, one day the kid wakes up and they're like, wait a minute, that's not even my idea. So these are specific tools that I teach. And when it's guided, it's very, it's a little bit more structured. And so you're using specific tools. And, and so for example, I'd be happy to teach one, two. All right now if you'd like. Yeah. Okay. So one of them is you'll hear people talk about grounding, and being connected to Mother Earth. And you can do this with anything, you can do it with yourself, you can do it with your home, you can do it with your car, anything that is free standing, basically. And so by connecting the base of your root chakra, which is your at the base of your spinal cord, it's your first chakra, it's your survival center. It's where you hold energy on an energetic level for survival. And those your most basic needs food, lodging. And there are some more, but I'll keep it basic for now. And if you can just imagine from the base of your spine, you're connecting that point to the center of Mother Earth. And then as you're connecting it to the center of Mother Earth, at the very base, you have roots going into the center of Mother Earth. And that's the basic core, but then you attach a grounding cord, which is the creative process of us selecting what type of chord you would like if you would like a big tree trunk. If you would like waterfalls if you would like dolphin swimming or balloons, and whatever it is you would like. And you make it about as wide as if you were to put your arms out around you. So you make it about as wide as the head around you. And then just have the ground and go all the way down. And to see it going all the way down to the center of Mother Earth from you. And as you do that once you connect it and once you're connecting all the way around, just look all the way around the edges and make sure it's solid and think you know Do you want a tree trunk? Do you want waterfalls? Do you want balloons do you want dolphin swimming? Do you want marbles you can have anything that you want. So anything that resonates with you and it can change on a moment by moment or day by day basis. And then once you have set up your grounding cord for yourself. You just switch it on release, you switch a knob and just say release and wish everything that doesn't belong in your space that's not connected to you. It just releases because really what you're doing is you're you're saying hello to Mother Earth to the planet. And her what she wants to do is really recycle everything. So everything you give to her that doesn't belong to you is going to be then recycled and get back to the rightful owner. And that means that if somebody else's energy is in your space, it goes down to the center of the earth and Mother Earth then gives it back to the person that belongs to and you are then cleansing giving yourself a really simple cleanse. Energetic cleanse by being able to release this energy that's not really necessary. It could be a newscast that you watched or read. It could be a phone conversation with somebody that was upset. And as the trick is here is that it's effortless. Is that really all you do is set it on release. You don't need to do anything you don't need to do Try, you just postulate I'm really releasing and letting go. And it's gone. And just allow yourself to release and release. And if you can begin to do this, you know, for 30 seconds to one minute a day, you know, you can pick a time, some people do it when they get to the restaurant, because they're sitting down. Some people, you know, there may like, oh, just put a quick grounding cord on or do it when you're out and about or when you sit in your chair at work, it just really will help. For example, if you sit at a desk in front of a computer, and you know, there is a lot of energetic energy on the internet, and it's sort of coming at you. And by putting a grounding on your computer and on your chair, it helps to release that energy. And you might be able to work a little bit longer, or you might feel better a little bit longer before you absorb all that. So that's just one simple tool. But that's an example of a little mini meditation, I know I did not go fully into the clothes, you know, I didn't go fully into it. But I'm more than happy to do it again, if you'd like in a more meditation space, but I think that you could still understand and be able to do that, whether you're driving a car and listening to the podcast, or whether you're walking or whether you're doing something else.
Christa 16:15
I think this is massive, because when you become a mother, the weight of the world sometimes becomes, you know, worry and all of these things, right. So I think that's a really beautiful meditation to let things go, right, because you worry about your kids, like, they literally are kind of your heart walking around with legs, right? Like you, you can't help but just be very emotionally vulnerable. I think as a parent, once you become a mother. So this is a powerful tool, I think before and after to really embrace, letting go of what's not yours or worries that you that you don't really need to be clinging to,
Speaker 1 16:49
it's really amazing, there is a certain empowerment that happens for women, once you become a mom, you become more empowered, and you sort of are thrown into the fire and you do make more decisions and approach things a little differently. So I think that that confidence comes naturally. But I think that the support of developing your intuition, makes it a little bit easier the transition and stepping into it and really owning a role as a mom, you know, because really, a mom is the CEO of the family. And you know, I know there's always the dad and everything else. But the mom is really in many instances, the CEO and by being the CEO of your own life of being a you know, being that connected to your intuition. There always will be times when your child will, you will sense that there's something your child needs, and everybody else will think something else. And you will have everybody telling you something else. And you will have to be able to really not only trust what you know is right for your child, but to have the courage to speak up about it. And that's why I really think it's important for women to develop their intuition if they have the opportunity to prior to Muhammad, but if not, then it's out. It's never too late. You know? Yeah,
Sheree 18:12
that was so beautiful. That meditation that you guided us through. Both Krista and I liked it nice clothes. I'm imagining my beautiful crystal like code going down to the coral. I
Speaker 1 18:25
love that. So you had a crystal I learned what it Yeah, Rose Quartz. Oh, gorgeous. Beautiful. So you can you can keep it attached. You can keep it on and then you can keep you know, every once in awhile, give yourself a new one because you do need to refresh them every once in a while. But yeah, I don't keep working. So it's pretty amazing. That's I'm so glad that you all were able to to do that.
Sheree 18:51
Thank you pivot a little bit and you did actually bring it up in terms of the trusting your body. And I think you know, we talked about here a lot empowered health is your superpower, I think intuition and coming back to your body so long, I think we've learned to mistrust our bodies or hate our bodies or especially as women in society where we get frustrated. And when we think about that fertility picture, it can be even more frustrating. You know, I'm constantly surrounded by a woman who are struggling to fall pregnant and clients that you know, that's what they end up coming to you for. And it's heartbreaking. And on the same. On the same note, there's the woman that go through, you know, and there's maybe a bit of a trigger for some woman listening. So a little bit of a warning but miscarriages as a huge, huge conversation that we need to have now in this health space, especially in the holistic health space because you know, one in four women are typically going through a miscarriage and I'm so pleased that it's a topic that's talked about more and more, but I believe that this current create such a mistrust in our bodies we then start searching for why did this happen? Why am I going through this? What was the, what did I do wrong? What was my body doing wrong? Like? Is this something I did to, you know, cause this and it can end up creating a lot of trauma as well. And then do we go through the process of trying to conceive? And there's so much to unpack, I think and we could have probably a whole episode on just this alone. But for the woman that you work with, who are struggling with fertility, and then may end up having a miscarriage, or maybe they come to you having had a miscarriage, how do you support your clients? What do you recommend in terms of the energetic side for their bodies, but also to process their grief?
Speaker 1 20:36
It's different for every individual as it is. But overall, I think that it's a really traumatic experience. And I think the important thing is to and I'm speaking generally is just to really recognize that a miscarriage was a pregnancy, it was real. And I think a lot of times women are like, Well, I had a miscarriage. So I didn't have that pregnancy. And it's that feeling that, oh, society thinks it didn't happen, but I know it did. And it was real to me. So I think, first of all, really acknowledging that it was real, that it really was something that happened, and it happened to you. And then kind of being okay, going through a grieving process. And the grieving process is the process of a death of losing something that's special to you. And it doesn't matter how short your pregnancy was. Because I don't know if you've ever seen pictures of anybody showing their positive pregnancy test, and the excitement and the stat, you know how ecstatic they are. And it doesn't matter how short the pregnancy is, it still happened, and being able to acknowledge it. And then wherever that person is, the grief could be the grief of the loss of that particular pregnancy, but it also could be triggering something from their childhood abandonment, or somebody leaving them or it could be triggering an even deeper issue. And so basically, what I'm usually looking at with my clients is, you know, is it just the event, or is it also triggering something else, because you want to heal both. And if it's triggering something else, then you really want to look at it as a gift. Because you're able to clear more before you become pregnant, I really believe that our bodies know, the best time and to become pregnant and our bodies will become pregnant when we're healthy enough. And it's the right time, and you don't want to have a full term pregnancy, if you're not fully healthy. You know, or that you won't have a fully healthy baby. So our bodies know, and just being able to kind of let go have that attachment to the outcome. Knowing that, hey, I did get pregnant, if it happened, once it can happen again. And then being able to actually move through and try to resolve it, taking your time, but trying to move through it as quickly as possible. So that you can then be in a position to, you know, have another pregnancy, I think is the ideal. And so it's really each individual will add you know, some people have miscarriages, someone who women who go through a DNC where they lose the baby and then have to go through a procedure to remove the baby from their body. And these are all extremely traumatic for you look at it. And so, it is a really important conversation. And you know, it's such a sensitive subject, because sometimes it happens before anybody's told anybody that they're pregnant. And it's, um, it's making me choke up a little bit. But it's a very, very delicate subject and being able to speak about it. But I definitely think there are more women that have had miscarriages and have spoken about it. I think it's more common than people realize. And I do encourage anybody that's, you know, going through that to reach out for support. You can also communicate with the spirit of the baby. And that's something that I do a lot of with my clients.
Christa 24:05
I'm curious, you know, some women elect to, you know, have an abortion and then kind of carry that later in life when they're ready to have a baby is your process very similar. And that I mean, because carrying that guilt, that shame, maybe or whatever it may be, if there is negativity around that is you kind of use the same process of forgiving your body forgiving, you know, and communicating. I know that's kind of separate kind of the same, but you know,
Speaker 1 24:31
it's it's, it's fine. It's what I found most of the time with women that have had abortions is that it was the right thing to do at the right time. And there's not as much of that grief and sadness and loss unless it wasn't their decision or their choice. And somebody sort of convinced them to do it, then that's different. It would be more of a grieving because I didn't listen to my own inner voice and have this baby versus yes versus As you know, listening to somebody else and doing what they told me to do, but it's really about being able to heal the past and resolve. And if the spirit of that baby that you had either the miscarriage or the portion is still in your space, then I help to clear that. So you still have the communication with the baby and spirit if you choose to communicate, but they're not so much in your space. So once they're there energetically out of your space, you don't have that same grief or that same sadness. I don't know how to describe it, but it's a matter of being okay that, hey, this, this baby's here, it's still my, it still might be painful, it still might be an experience, but the person will have processed it and be able to move forward, which is the most important thing.
Christa 25:45
So can we talk a little bit about you mentioned it, and I'm really curious about our own personal birth, and how that could be affecting us now, as women like how how can that energetically be apparently really curious about this? Because according to my mother, I have very firstborn. very traumatic delivery. I'm really curious, the connection and what signs maybe that you need to process this? Right?
Speaker 1 26:12
Well, if you'd like to, if you're, I mean, I can give you a general answer, if you're comfortable sharing details about what happened to you, or very generally, I can also give you some support right now. So either Yeah,
Christa 26:25
in general, I just, I was a first baby and 24 hours, you know, very long, very painful labor, you know, that my mom describes for sit ups that the conehead coming out clearly a traumatic kind of vaginal delivery, very excruciating, according to my mom, but of course, I don't have any memory of this. And so I'm just
Speaker 1 26:45
right here. Yeah. So do you know if you were full term? Or if you were early or
Christa 26:51
late? Late? I was about a week late, sir, a week late.
Speaker 1 26:56
And so did they induce labor? Or was it just a natural? No. Okay. All right. So basically, you can imagine yourself as a spirit, before you come into the body. And this is the way I look at things. And so as you're coming through, as you're inside your mom, and as you're going through the birth canal, it may not have been as traumatic for you, but because it was traumatic for your mom. And because it was traumatic, and there was some chaos around you with everybody else that sounds like the forceps pulling you out or getting, you know, whatever, because it could have been that you weren't ready to come and that they were kind of forcing you to come before you were ready. And when they're kind of forcing you to calm before you're ready, you just wanted a little bit more time to kind of hibernate and bond with your mom inside. And there's nothing the matter with that. But what happens sometimes in situations like that is you take on a lot of the emotion and the pain that your mom experienced. And so it could be your mom panicking, because she's like, I've got to get this baby out, the due date was a week ago, oh my gosh, I'm panicking, you know, it could have been her panicking. And then that you can, you can actually want to heal your mom, because you're like, it's not affecting me, I'm fine mom, you know, I'm fine, you were fine. So you're totally fine. But what you've done is taken on, I think, you know, you just took on a little bit of what your mom was experiencing a little bit of the pain, a little bit of the fear a little bit of the, oh my gosh, it's late, I've got to get this out. So you just kind of look at, you know, places in your life where maybe you felt rushed or pushed, when maybe you didn't want to go as fast but you felt some kind of thing inside of you pushing you pushing yourself to go a little bit faster than your natural pace, you look at any fear of somebody trying to pull you along somewhere you don't want to go when you might want to go somewhere else or do something at your own pace, and you just see if that's something that you know, is is affecting your life now. And if it is, then you can you can clear that. And this is a very general example, it may not necessarily apply to you. But you know, when if it is and you can basically clear that. And then what it does is it just gives you space to be more relaxed and be a little bit more present with yourself. And to be a little bit more, you know, in tune with what's around you without all that pressure on you to have to perform or do something, you know, and it sounds like you were just relaxed, pretty easygoing, a really bright happy baby. Were you pretty happy as a baby?
Christa 29:30
Think so? I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1 29:33
I think you were pretty happy as a baby. Like, I think you're pretty bright spirit really happy. And so it really wasn't that traumatic of an experience for you, but it was for your mom. And so, you know, you know, it's very difficult when they're women and they're used to controlling their environment to having things happen at certain time in certain way. And it doesn't happen according to their plan. And so it can create panic, and you know, animals I mean, she's delivering because it's all of a sudden, everything's not happening the way she planned. And, you know, labor is is not a planned event, I can tell you, even people that can plan how they do it. And I do encourage all of my clients and anybody else to have a birth plan in place who you want President where you want it. And that's the other thing is that you don't know if was the environment, one that your mom chose, or wasn't one that was just given to her? For example, did she go to a doctor and her doctor says, this is where you're going to give birth, this is what you're going to do. And this is how it's going to be done. Whereas now I really encourage my clients, you know, so you'll know to, you know, choose where you're going to have it, choose the lighting, choose the music, do you want candles? D? Who do you want there? Who do you not want there? When you're giving birth right afterwards? Or whatever. But what kind of food do you want? Do you want a warm shower? Do you want, you know, whatever it is that makes you feel good, and makes you feel safe? And it can be really scary if you don't feel safe and you're giving birth?
Christa 31:05
So you're sure? Yeah, no, I was born in the 70s. In an army hospital, I'm almost certain she had none of these options.
Speaker 1 31:12
Well, that's what I'm saying she didn't have the options. And if it was an army that makes more sense, it it's very regimented, very organized, it's very systematic things had to be this way, this way, this way. And your mom's like, wait a minute, but I, I can't do that. I can't be that systematic. So you know, it could have been in a different hospital, they might not have used forceps, it might have been a little bit more relaxed, because it sounds like your mom was under a lot of pressure, too. So kudos for her for, you know, for going through that. And you know, you turned out fine. So, no, no, you're fine. But I think it's good for anybody to look at, you know, who was I as a baby when I was coming down the canal. And what happened when I first you know, you're in that nice, imagine you're in that nice cocoon of your mom's belly, and then you come out into the world. It's kind of you imagine what that's like. I mean, we don't think about it, because they're just babies. But you know, when you can heal that experience, I think it's really nice. In my experience, when I was born, I was born and my mom held me in her arms, and she had an all natural birth in a hospital. My dad was a doctor, so he was an intern at the time, and she helped me. And she was scared because she didn't know what to do. So I felt her fear. And I carry that for a long time. But, you know, that can all be healed and taken care of. And those are normal feelings. It's like, oh, my gosh, I've got a baby. It doesn't mean that she didn't love me or want me. You know, and same thing with your mom. You know, she was probably ecstatic you were coming, but it is the process of it's like a graduation becoming a mom when you go through labor. Graduation as a mama is what I call it. But
Sheree 32:56
it's so interesting to look at this. I mean, I'm curious, I know we have, we have a session coming up Hillary so it might get you to dive into advanced. So definitely. I mean, my birth was very traumatic as well, I think was about 22 hours, I had the umbilical cord wrapped around my neck three times, that's a cut, my mom opens this area, and she got transported from where she was supposed to have her beautiful little birthing experience to the hospital who didn't want to give birth in a hospital. So it's so interesting to hear you talk through the different things and different things that we can end up taking on like you said, with Krista, you know, maybe she's taken on some of that wanting to heal or protect your mom. And I'm really curious, you know, even from like the baby's perspective, and it was funny, I listened to I think it was an Abraham Hicks podcast years ago, and it's always stuck with me. And she talks about and I'm wondering, total side tension. You're talking about the spirit of the baby. And you know, we we've even seen if you think about friends, you know, Ross like talks to the baby like little Ben when he's inside Carol. I'm curious to know if there's any of that sort of element that comes through like I'm like, how much of it? Do we we hear and know, as a child that maybe we take on board even before we leave the womb space, you know, can be a little bit. Well,
Speaker 1 34:15
everything basically. And you know, it's more on an energetic level. But you know, babies can learn how to play musical instruments before they're born, they can learn all kinds of things. Yes. And there are all kinds of things you can do with a baby when they're in utero. And that's why you hear about people playing music or reading to their baby in utero, and all of that. And in addition to that, it's also possible to communicate with the spirit of your baby before birth. And that's what's really magical is that's when you can actually begin to communicate before you're even pregnant with this baby and spirit that you would like to basically give a body to so it's I don't know if that's the answer. I can go into more detail, but it is all possible. Now you have to imagine, though, that these babies, especially the high vibe babies that are coming in now, they do have a mind of their own. So you might want to teach them something. And if they're not interested, I don't know if they're going to be as open to it or not, I don't know that situation, but they probably would, because you're their parent, but, and they've chosen you. But you know, you do have to remember that they're an individual. And it's so easy to think, oh, the baby's gonna come, and I'm gonna do this, this and this. And, you know, it just doesn't work that way. Sometimes it does. But for the most part, they're individuals, even from birth,
Christa 35:37
you mentioned a little bit about just tuning in, like through meditation, let's say, and then being able to deepen your own personal intuition, because not all of us feel like we are very intuitive, especially, you know, kind of the go getter, very objective, maybe more in our masculine like achieve kind of energy. What do you what's your approach to teach how to tap into your own intuition, and how to really deeply tap into the ability to manifest what we really want? Because that really comes from a creative space, not a doo doo doo kind of space, right? So can you guide the doer into how to tap into more of that intuition, and more of that just gentle ability to manifest what we really want?
Speaker 1 36:23
Well, that's a lot of those are a lot of questions. And so there's a lot of different ways to answer it for different people. But I will say that one very good way to be able to develop your intuition is through a meditation practice, sort of like I shared with you today learning specific tools to be able to hone in and connect with more of your own voice. So when we were creating our grounding our grounding cord, and connecting to the center of Mother Earth, and releasing energy that really wasn't our voice, you're actually beginning to take a small step toward hearing more of your own voice. And it's learning more tools like that, that can do it. Now. There are also other ways that you can develop your own intuition through practice, you know, creative activities, really listening and tuning into and giving yourself a lot of self care, when somebody spends a lot of time giving themselves self care. A lot of times, they're able to have more clarity or direction or be more clear on what steps they want to take in their life. But sometimes, we're so busy, we don't always have time to take out that that chunk of time for self care, a lot of the entrepreneurs are able to because they actually write it in their calendars and schedule it. But somebody that has a typical nine to five job might not be able to do that. So that's when I think it's important when you have a hobby, such as a creative activity, or something that you enjoy spending time doing, that you sort of forget about everything you're so engrossed in it. And when you forget about everything, it sort of does clear your mind. And so you do want to have a space, a clean slate to be able to do it. But I think the most powerful way to do it, which is what I call your sixth sense, and connecting with your sixth sense. So it's something you're born with, when you imagine that when you're born, you don't necessarily know how to read a book. But there is always a point in life where somebody might teach you sounds, then they teach you the alphabet, then they teach you words, and then words turn in sentences. And then you can read a book, it's the same thing when you're developing your intuition. You learn the sounds, first, you learn specific tools, there are specific tools and specific techniques to use, to be able to then hone in and to be able to use your intuition on the fly in any situation. And also to protect yourself from other energies that might be of more of a negative vibration. It's not something to be afraid of, because it's everywhere. But when you can, especially for those of us who are very sensitive, I'm very sensitive to my environment, and who am around even thoughts that people are thinking but and so there's a way to turn your intuition on and off, so I don't have to hear it all the time. But I know how to tune into it if I want to. So basically the I guess the answer is I really support learning, you know, specific meditation tools and an intuitive meditation setting. I do have classes I teach I know other people that teach classes or if somebody doesn't want to do that, then they can definitely be journaling on your own you know, journaling, talking to yourself write a question at the top, what's your question? Journal the answer, and a lot of times people can come up with that answer on their own. But like I said, about reading, it's the same thing is that there are tools that you can learn to enhance that.
Sheree 39:48
Do you think it's really a practice to write like, you have to just like go into the gym, you have to keep strengthening that muscle and if we've been taught for so long, to shut down our intuition, whether that be because we have had parents that have maybe told us to how to be how to show up what to do, and maybe had a little bit more control in our lives, whether it's been a dominant figure that we've looked to outside of ourselves, or whether it's been a health issue that's potentially shut off our ability to connect with ourselves, I think it's beautiful to have that awareness that you can come back to this practice at anytime you can learn, you know, new tools, you can learn new practices, and I love that you said most of us, like already have the answers, what we always have the answers within us clubs, it's just being able to tap into that, and, and again, strengthening that tall. And I think that's, that's a real gift to be able to come home to and you know, people talk about that gut feeling that they get, and I always I always share intuition in that perspective. Because, you know, your body knows, and there's something somatically that you're feeling that's leaning you one way or the other, like the amount of times I've gone. And you I shouldn't have done that. And it's like, I wasn't listening to my intuition. And it's, it can be the littlest things, it can be that my should have done that sooner. And it's like, why did we override that? Why did we choose to ignore it in that moment, and it's, it's maybe we've, you know, suppressed that in a voice. So I really appreciate you sharing some of the tools that you can kind of come home to yourself in the way I look at.
Unknown Speaker 41:20
Lately, that was beautifully said.
Christa 41:24
So Hillary, this has been super interesting. And I think that people who want to learn more are going I mean, it sounds like you've just we've only scratched the surface of how you can help support people. And so can you share with us how people can follow you? What do you offer and where can people connect with you?
Speaker 1 41:40
Oh, I'm, I'm on Instagram under bringing Baby B r i n g i n b, y, and Tik Tok, also the same name. And I also have a website, it's spring in baby.com. And so I'm reachable in any of those places. And
Christa 41:58
of course, I'll put it in the show notes. But that even just the name is just so refreshing and sweet and comforting. I think that's the biggest word just like really comforting. And, you know, I feel like these tools not only help around fertility, but just in living a more abundant life in general and being more empowered in your own emotions, like you mentioned, and your own intuition and your own life, really. So thank you so much for sharing and opening that window a little bit for us and into in peering into the amazing goodness of your tools that you have. Oh, well, thank
Speaker 1 42:32
you so much for having me. I think this is a wonderful podcast. Yeah. Thank you for having me. Thank you for being here.
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